After years of being unhappy, the step to take is divorce. This is to legally dissolve a marriage, a separation in contract of both parties. If you decide to cancel or reorganize the marital union or the duties and responsibilities of the marriage, releasing this bond would be needed a divorce lawyer to start or finalized all the process requiring the sanction of a court and special requirements, from child custody if needed, child visitation, alimony, parenting time etc. So don’t doubt looking for help in this special need.
The SHTICK S29-05 Seg.2 Sheiny New on Jewish divorce and family relations